QUIZ:   IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN TROUBLE?  (Answer honestly)  
  

 1)   Do you and your spouse are angry at each most of the time or 
       does one of you withdraw?

 2)   Are your children acting out, are fearful or have nightmares?

 3)   Do you persistently choose to go out with friends rather than with 
       your spouse?

 4)   Is more anger than nurture in your marriage?

 5)   Most days, do you feel drained of energy, angry, numb, tearful or 
       depressed?

 6)   Has your concentration suffered at work due to problems at home?

 7)   Do you argue with your spouse but usually discuss your marriage
       problems with friends, family members and outsiders?

 8)   Are you working with a Divorce Attorney?
 9)   Does fear of an uncertain future keep you in your marriage?
10)  Do you feel you need to get out but don't know where to start?

If your answer is "YES" to some of these questions you may want to consult with Dr. Birchmeier.  Sometimes a few suggestions help. 
Do not wait too long!